You’re Doing It Right Now…

Sometimes you like a guy too much. You lose all sense of rationality and blam! Your texting gets sloppy and you start sabotaging things. Maybe he’s on your mind because he’s not paying much attention—it takes him forever to respond and he’s not that flirty. Or maybe he pays attention but he never takes the next step.

You just want to kiss him passionately. Etc. :-)

What do you have to do to take your "friendship" to the next level: intimacy?

Here's a scheme that will get you closer. Try this:

You: Let me see your phone a sec.

Him: Why?

You: I want to take a picture of you so you can send it to me. (takepic)

Him: Cool. What’ s your number?


You:“Stop!”

Him: “Stop what?”

You: “Stop thinking about me. See, you’ re doing it…right…now.

It's that combination of humor and sexiness that may just turn his attention toward you. Give it a shot! Your relationship may turn out like the trivial one in e.e. cummings "erotic" poem.


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