Eye Contact Flirting

Eye contact is the easiest and safest way to get the flirting message across and get a sign back in no time. It’s simple, instinctive and something that most of us indulge in.

Eye contact flirting is super-exciting, no matter where you are—Bacchus or the beach. It doesn’t matter if you like him or not. If a guy stares at you now and then, it instantly catches your attention and rouses your interest. You'll get goosebumps - a trivial reflex started by the sympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for many fight-or-flight responses.

Flirting by eye contact is safe, fun and an easy way to find out if that sexy man is interested in knowing you better, without the pressure of making the first move. You could stare at him and exchange a few stolen glances. Or (gulp) you could try to strike up a conversation.

Beware that some eye contact can be off-putting:
• Don’t stare for too long. It’s scary.
• Be very subtle with your stares or you’d end up looking like a stalker.

Eye contact flirting is a slow and exciting game that builds the momentum with time. If you overdo it or stare for too long, you’ll end up looking desperate.


Stare down a cocktail or two (then drink 'em) in the cool air-conditioned confines of Bacchus today and tonight. We've got the friendliest service staff in all of Honolulu and the tastiest drinks. All flavors of Absolut vodka are $6 today. DJ spins at 10PM.