Sexy In Your Own Unique Way

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Nobody is the same type of attractive. If you want to highlight your best assets and learn how to be sexy in your own unique way, here’s what to do.

We all have our own things that make us sexy and attractive. A guy that’s not conventionally hot to the majority of people might be the sexiest man someone else has ever seen. It’s all about finding what makes you unique and learning how to be sexy in your own way.

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Just Be Yourself!

You can’t try to be sexy the way someone else is because you can’t. If you try emulating a celebrity you say is sexy, you could end up suppressing the parts of you that are truly enticing.

If you don’t feel sexy or have a hard time feeling good about yourself when it comes to your type of attractiveness, we have a few tips that can help. Here’s how you can learn how to be sexy and bring forward your best self.

Figure out your unique and attractive characteristics.
This might sound weird, but think back to all the guys you’ve been with. What’s a commonality they all thought was cute or sexy about you?

There has to be something everyone has mentioned that you may not have even thought about. Your laugh could be the sexiest thing about you if everyone has always said so. Think about what it is so you can focus on it.

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You’re confident!

Work on your confidence.
Confidence isn’t something everyone finds sexy but in order to figure out what’s best about you, you may need to work on this. Confidence isn’t just about thinking you’re the hottest and best looking.

In fact, it’s more about loving yourself fiercely despite many flaws. When you gain confidence, you’ll understand what it is that’s special about you and it can help you own it.

Dress in whatever makes you feel good.
Don’t just dress sexy, that’s not always needed. If you dress in something that makes you feel great and comfortable, your sex appeal will be evident.

When you’re comfortable, you’re confident. Allowing that confidence to come through will do more for you than those tight-fitting spandex shorts – unless they make you feel good. You can dress in jeans and a t-shirt and be just as sexy.

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Be a goof-ball!

Let out your goofy side.
Being goofy and having a fun personality is incredibly sexy. If you’re a naturally silly person, then be silly around the people you like. Not everyone has this quality and it can be extremely attractive to the right people.

Have fun no matter what you’re doing.
There’s something irresistible about someone who is always having fun. No matter what someone prefers in a person attraction-wise, they can’t deny this.

He’ll want to know why you’re having so much fun and he’ll want to be a part of that. So enjoy life. Being free and happy is one of the sexiest things there is.

Knowing how to be sexy is all about figuring out what makes you uniquely attractive and owning it. Learn what your sexiest trait is and work to highlight that and attract those who find you enticing.

There are many varieties of sexy just like there are so many trivial varieties of hair in the title song from the musical HAIR, “I want it long, straight, curly, fuzzy, snaggy, shaggy, ratty, matty, oily, greasy, fleecy, shining, gleaming, streaming, flaxen, waxen, knotted, polka dotted, twisted, beaded, braided, powdered, flowered and confettied, bangled, tangled, spangled and spaghettied!’

Be sexy at Bacchus!