Are You Free Tuesday Night?

Sex appeal is hard to pin down–it’s a quality that draws you to someone, powerfully and instantly. But just because it’s hard to understand doesn’t mean that it’s hard to cultivate for yourself.

Confidence and flirtatiousness are universally sexy. Here are a few tips on how to project sexy confidence and get your mojo working.

Make yourself stand out by being unafraid to make a move: initiate flirting, speak clearly and confidently, and let the other person know you're interested. You don't have to be drop-dead handsome or a genius to be good at flirting. All it takes is self-assurance, a little bit of courage, and a sense of supply and demand. You'll make yourself irresistible.

Introducing yourself and asking someone's name is a perfectly reasonable way of breaking the ice, as well as super-general questions, like, "What brings you here?" or "How's your night going?" You don't have to be Shakespeare. Avoid the cliché lines.

When you're trying to flirt with someone, don't look at the ground, or over their shoulder, or at the ceiling. Look them right in the eyes. Holding someone's gaze communicates both intimacy and confidence, and it's the easiest thing you can do to become a master flirt. Instant sex appeal.

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To get a good flirtation session going, you need to accomplish two things: portray yourself as an interesting and sexy person worth knowing, and to learn whether or not the person you're talking to is worth knowing. You can up your sex appeal by being a good, empathetic listener who's genuinely curious and interested in the other person.

It can all happen at Bacchus today when you order up your favorite tap beer (only $3/pint). Add on a gourmet sandwich or flatbread pizza for a few bucks more.